HOW HEARTBREAK CAN MAKE YOU A MILLIONAIRE
This may be a difficult read for some of you, however I think that it is important to understand that sometimes heartbreak can be a good thing for our personal and professional lives. I think that there are a lot grey areas in relationships. Things are never all good or all bad.
So the goal here is to show you how you can use the feeling of disappointment and letdown to bounce back to be an even stronger and more determined person. My intention here is not to ask you to find someone that will hurt you, but instead to understand how to channel your raw emotions into something positive and constructive.
Speaking from personal experience, I have taken many disappointing romantic moments and turned them into success stories for myself. A few years back, I was emotionally involved with a nice young lady. I was a bit wet behind the ears back then, so I wholeheartedly invested one hundred percent of my emotions into the situation.
Needless to say, my feelings weren’t reciprocated on the same level I had hoped for. I ended up being hurt and I was faced with a critical moment where I could have simply allowed myself to wallow in self-pity.
Instead, I decided that I was going to be the person who determined my own destiny and not adopt a victim mentality. I decided to make the best of the situation. I ended up starting a public speaking club that helped people with their speaking skills, and I poured all my energy into that new endeavor. So if you find yourself being heartbroken, one thing you could do is create a new hobby for yourself so you don’t dwell on the past and move forward.
My second story also involves another moment of heartbreak. I thought I had learned from of my old mistakes, but this time around, I made new ones. This is normal, you must never kick yourself for making mistakes, what would life be without the errors? Learning comes from making mistakes.
The relationship ended up not working out, and we amicably decided to go our separate ways. And once again I was back where I started, but this time I decided that I wanted to start a company with my friend. It was the best decision I ever made because I decided that I was in control of my destiny, not another person.
Since that heartbreak, I have been on fire ever since. The key takeaway here is the concept that YOU are in control of your life. You can’t control what people do to you, but you can control how you feel and what actions you are going to take in response. My advice is to use negative emotions as a catalyst for something bigger and greater for your life.
If you commit to using moments of heartbreak as a time to push yourself to reach a financial or spiritual goal, then you will be successful, because you will be taking matters into your own hands. Be proactive about your future and take life by the horns and make things happen!